Sexual affection between husbands' and wives' “the game” must be moderate
(in article person system alias) plays “the natural game” to be helpful to the addition appeal and the harmony, may also take marital the lubricant, but if “entertainment” the way is improper, down to is very then easy to cause opposite party repugnance to fear, specially the female when on own initiative is inviting the groom's family plays “the natural game”, must pay attention to many items.
Below this story explained that “the natural game” wants moderate the Li joy to love husband forest Greece very much. In her eye, the forest rare talent and is much longer, she also thought that Lin Xishen is loving itself. But elder sister's change of marital status causes her to lose self-confidently to own marriage. Who also couldn't think that the brother-in-law could carry the elder sister to look for a sweetheart. “the men are like stealing rank!”The elder sister said like this to the Li joy. The Li joy thought that the elder sister is more attractive than oneself, but the brother-in-law wants to steal rank. Then Lin Xigeng has the reason, also to have the condition to look for other woman. She remembered the husband saying that listened to the clever saying to her: The man likes the woman is “in the living room is a virtuous young woman, on the bed is an immoral woman ......” from this, she deliberately considered that conquers the husband only then depending on two; first, oneself sympathize gently to him; Second, satisfies him in the natural aspect. the Li joy starts in the brain to recall that in the past has looked from the magazine and the video disk does loves the picture, the aftertaste all kinds of is doing loves the method, then induces the husband to make “the natural game” together with her. The reason that she thinks the man to look for other women not is seeks the stimulation? One have done with his each kind of game, what he will also have not to satisfy? At first, Lin Xi too has not cared to the Li joy's change, thought that between the husbands and wives plays these also not to have what incorrect. Might afterward he discover that the wife was glad to this field of endeavor, and made the frequency which loved to enhance many, the body and mind was weary frequently, but she actually “had plenty of fight in one”. He then understood that the so-called man most feared the woman said “I also want” the joke and has the truth. Because obstructs in man's face, Lin Xi is tired out by dealing with frequently, so that had the sexual impotence and the premature ejaculation. In order to let the husband cure “sickness”, in the past the company bought the contraceptive pills to think that the embarrassed Li joy departed from the norm, buys uses “the god oil” for the husband and takes orally “is tender every night”. Afterward, the Li joy has bought back things unexpectedly and so on selling price extremely high so-called appeal thing dermis handcuff fetters, treats as the masochism oneself to resemble. To this, Lin Xi can not but lag behind the face to come to talk earnestly with her. He tells the wife not to have the stamen, in the world is not all men wants to do the adulterous love affair to look for the stimulation, he likes her hoping that can the love live, although but “the natural game” is helpful in promotes the sex appeal to receive, but if will be wants to use this way to restrain opposite party to work just the opposite. What a pity, these words only played to her for a while role, soon she used the new move, but Lin Xi the avoidance, is regarded as by her is adulterous love affair's indication. Afterward Lin Xi has lost the confidence to the wife, thinks or separate to well, exactly at this time the Li joy has been pregnant, the divorce is also easier said than done? luckily, some friends suggested Lin Xi takes along the wife to ask psychologist to have a look, the Li joy also felt own point of view have the deficiency, is willing to go see a doctor, undergoes a period of time treatment, her psychology restores gradually normally, two person of marriages are also content like at the beginning. is obvious, “the natural game” likely is a double-edged sword, the appropriate advantage's entertainment, may cause the husbands and wives sex life becomes the rich appeal, multi-spot romantic color; But if plays goes too far, then possibly overstates, down to has strangled the marriage. Therefore is carrying on “the natural game” time, must remember following advice - -
1. grasps suitably, both can accept and each other by both sides feels happy, has the profit take each other's body and mind as.
2. considered fully opposite party morality and the natural idea, cannot demand opposite party. Elects the game must be both sides is glad accepts.
3. do not hold appreciatively “the natural game” to treat as is flatters opposite party perhaps controls opposite party method, will otherwise cause opposite party to be repugnant.
4. delimits firmly “the natural game” in the marriage, do not to seek for a bigger stimulation to step onto adulterous love affair's dangerous way, otherwise your marriage will therefore sooner or later burst.
5. do not deduct purely “the natural game” “the movie featuring Chinese acrobatic fighting”, but should advance “the romance” many color, plays through the husbands and wives between improves the relationship, will do this will be more romantic is worth the bilateral aftertaste.